The Experiment

It's very hard to connect with the right person and share a sexual experience based on your individual fetish. Well, It's not really that hard, the Internet has made connecting with someone of like mind a lot easier. I remember the days when all we had were the personal ads in the back pages of the monthly tabloids on sale on the bottom shelf of certain newsstands and porno shops.

What I mean is scheduling a time and place to meet after you've placed or responded to an ad, sifted through your responses and weeded out the cave men, the ones who are too frightened to meet in person and the creepy or repulsive. You are always taking a chance. I find the quality of the writing in an e-mail is often a good judge for me. If they are willing to spend some time sharing their thoughts in written form it's a good indication I can get to know them better before we meet.

In the past five years I've gotten together with four people I've met on line, one was a disaster, it was his first time and I don't think he knew what he really wanted. One was with another gal like me with a thing for pantyhose, she was a lot of fun but hard to schedule time with. Another was a former cross-dresser and admirer who still had a thing for pantyhose and the last was another pantyhose fiend (do you see a pattern here?). Of the later three who I have nothing but good feelings towards they all responded to me with a regular photo of themselves. What I mean is, it wasnÕt of them cross-dressed or in fetish gear, it wasn't a close up of their genitals (thank goodness). They were ordinary and even slightly goofy photos and this showed me their honesty, their willingness to open up and be real with me.

Like I said before, scheduling an encounter can be a problem, we all have lives, work, family, different schedules, etc. And the folks I've gotten together with in the past have proved impossible to connect with this past year. So, eager for a date I decided to do something about it.

Just to let you know, I do not go for anonymous sex and have had only a couple of one night stands in my life. I am not promiscuous and want to be on friendly terms with the people I encounter.

A few days ago I placed an ad on craigslist.org and another on http://www.tgbeauties.com

My intention of course is to meet someone. But I thought it would be interesting to post the results of my ads here.